Wednesday, 24 April 2013

A Final Note



…and then we were ‘home’.  It’s taken us weeks after our return to Melbourne to finally get the previous blog post up.  Partly because we’ve been busy re-connecting with some friends and family (with many still yet to see!), frantically house-hunting and jumping straight back into work routines.  However, perhaps the main reason for the delay in getting the final blog post up has been to hold onto that final bit of our trip for as long as possible!  The realisation that our trip was over has certainly hit us hard and there have been the inevitable moments of ‘post-holiday blues and grumpiness’ over the last few weeks - all those years of dreaming about doing a ‘big trip’, spending weeknights scouring through Lonely Planet books, maps and online forums, the excitement of the 6 months of travel…and now back to reality with no upcoming holidays in sight and a seemingly endless amount of bills and debts to pay.

Though after a couple of weeks of letting all of that settle, it’s certainly starting to become clearer that the learnings and experiences from our travels can be carried with us for so many years to come – hopefully for a lifetime.  Firstly, there is the predictable travel realisation that the world is ENORMOUS with so many corners to explore – and rather than coming back with our travel desire satiated, we are returning with an extensive list of future travel dreams and a burning desire to get back out there.  We are also returning with a huge amount of ‘traveller’s debt’ – not the financial kind, but instead a bank of favours and acts of kindness that were shown to us throughout our travels that we can hopefully repay to travellers and visitors who cross our paths in the years to come.  We have a huge sense of gratitude and optimism for the future; everywhere we went – whether it be tiny villages in Malawi that we passed through on the back of a Matola, or the beautiful home of our new friends Dawn and Keith in Kelowna (to name just a few!) – we were greeted with open arms, huge smiles, and the most amazing generosity and openness.  It is wonderfully life-affirming to share a connection with so many people, from so many walks of life, all of whom gave of themselves to help make our journey unforgettable.  

The last 6 months has been an incredible experience – made all the more so because we shared it together.   As we now move on to the next stage of our lives, it is something that we will continually look back on with much fondness.  This blog has proven to be a really useful way for us to capture our experiences on our travels and we are excited that we can ‘re-live’ the experiences over again by reading back through it.  We did also share our blog with others interested in our travels, so for those of you reading this final post – it seems appropriate to sign off with a huge thank-you for following our journey. 

Alick and Tess xx

USA Road Trip - The Final Two Weeks: Austin, Texas to Aliso Viejo, California

Monday March 11, Lafayette, LA to Austin, TX & Tuesday March 12, Austin TX

Our east-bound route through Austin Texas during their famous South by South West (SXSW) festival was proving to be both a blessing and a curse.  We had heard so much about the buzz of Austin – particularly around the food and music scene – and were so excited about being there when it came to life for the festival, though accommodation options were limited and prohibitively expensive – with even the budget ‘Super 8’ hotels charging upwards of $US250 per night.  Fortunately we had allowed ourselves to turn to our trusty friend, Air BnB a few days earlier and had managed to find a more affordable option camping in a guy’s backyard a few kilometres outside of town.  We weren’t quite sure what to expect and arrived to find no one was home and there was no answer on the mobile phone number we’d been given.  We spent about 20 minutes wondering what to do until a lady eventually turned up and, despite not having any knowledge of our booking or how long we were planning on staying, guided our car through various sculptures, machinery, caravans and other paraphernalia to a spot in the backyard where we could camp – in between 4-5 tents, an open air outdoor shower and composting toilet purpose built for visiting campers.  It was quite a bizarre place but the proximity of the property to the main bus line suited our needs well and we headed into town.

Austin, Texas

In the absence of tickets to the actual South-by-South West festival, we set about exploring some of the many side performances around town.  Without much knowledge of any of the local bands, it was difficult to know where to start so we started off by heading to ‘T-Bird and the Breaks’ performance – the Austin band we had seen a few nights previously in Lafayette.  The show was fantastic once again and we had a great night wandering between venues and being in absolutely heaven with all the delicious food trucks around the streets (we had heard that Austin was the original home of food trucks and it certainly didn’t disappoint in that regard!).  Austin was absolutely packed and buzzing with a really friendly, spontaneous vibe  - ie. on one occasion the traffic come to a standstill when two strangers heading in opposite directions across a pedestrian crossing decided to have a dance-off in the middle of the street!

Making the most of advertising space! Austin, Texas
The next morning, the mundane but, by then, somewhat urgent task of doing a few loads of clothes washing proved rather fruitful as we found our neighbouring washing machine-user to be a wealth of information on Austin eateries.  We walked out of the laundromat happy in the knowledge that we not only had clean underwear but also an extensive list of where to go to graze throughout the afternoon! Perfect!

The highlight of these eateries by far was a place called Hopdoddy – specialising in burgers, shakes and craft beer using all local, organic and free-range produce.  Right up our alley!  Following the recommendation of our laundromat friend, Tess ordered a salted caramel shake, which was just ridiculously good!!!  We spent the remainder of the afternoon and evening wandering between different bars and the multitude of private and commercial properties that had been converted into live music venues during SXSW until wandering the streets started to get difficult as the crowds thickened with people looking for late-night raves and we, feeling our age and the effects of being on our feet all day, decided to retire to our backyard campground to get some sleep.  

Hopdoddy Burger, Austin, Texas

Wednesday March 13 & Thursday March 14, Austin TX to Big Bend National Park

Tess was unable to leave Austin without another salted caramel shake from Hopdoddy, so dragged Alick kicking and screaming in for a quick slurp and a bite of Bison Burger (yum!) before farewelling the craziness of SxSW and hitting the road – with the best intention of heading to Barton Springs for a soak in the hotsprings (and hopefully a bit of exercise too).  Both having forgone a morning bath at our campsite, our attempts at ‘getting clean’ were foiled time and again, as we discovered that not only were the hotsprings closed for renovation, but our second option (the swimming pool at Lockhart State Park) was also closed until May!  It seems that in Texas 25c isn’t quite warm enough to warrant going for a swim!  After this minor frustration, we decided that the best way around it was to eat some more, so made a bee-line for the small town of Luling where Alick had had a recommendation from the local Budweiser rep to try the BBQ.  We rolled into Luling City Market BBQ with much anticipation – unfortunately only to find that they had sold out of everything except sausages!  We had a quick sausage and decided to wait the 25 minutes until the ribs would be ready, and in the meantime make a few calls to book in some accommodation for our nights at Big Bend National Park…

Texas BBQ, Luling City Market, Texas
This was the first point during our trip where we started to feel as though our ‘no planning, arrive without a booking’ policy may have fallen foul…  It turned out that all this week in Texas is Spring Break, so all schools and universities have a week off…resulting in all of the campsites all over the state being pretty much full up.  Big Bend were clear that all of their sites were full, and none of the State Parks between Luling and Big Bend were also full…  With mild anxiety in our bellies (quelled a little by a brace of huge and delicious BBQ ribs), and no idea where we were staying that night, we set off westward once again…  We soon found ourselves whizzing through beautiful hilly countryside, teeming with rivers and birdlife everywhere.  So amazingly different to both the marshy swamps of Louisiana, but also the desert landscape of northern Texas…

Old mechanic workshop, Texas

After a few hours driving, we stumbled upon what has to be one of the most quintessentially American experiences of our trip so far.  Shortly before reaching our psychological goal for the day (the town of Junction), we saw a small truck-stop on the side of the I-10 and decided to pull in…  On driving around the side of the fuel pumps we saw a sign reading ‘Free showers & parking, good food, and pretty (old) waitresses’.  We knew at that moment that we were going to stay there that night!  It was an amazing experience – complete with a real route-66 style diner (burritos and lemonade all round), showers with a huge sign stating that only truckers were to use them (thankfully we managed to put on our best trucker faces to get into the showers and no one questioned us), and the constant growl of semi-trailers rolling in and out of the car-park…  Despite the noise, we slept very well and were back on the road by 8am, continuing the drive West.

Route 66 Truck Stop

Having spent the last 6 or so days in Louisiana and southern Texas, we had become very accustomed to being surrounded by lush greenery – either the swamps of LA or the Texas hillcountry – but as we went further and further west, we began once again to see the table-like shapes of mesas rising out of the desert – in many cases capped with hundreds of wind turbines, spinning in the hot southerly breeze.  Turning south off the I-10, we passed through numerous ranches, and the temperature continued to climb…  Eventually arriving in Big Bend National Park, we were thrilled to hear that one of the campgrounds had 5 spaces left – which would be allocated on a first-come first-served basis.  This campground was over 60 miles from the park entrance, so without further ado, and with a few butterflies in our stomachs, we decided to take the risk and drive through the park in the hope that one of those sites would be still available.  Soon into the drive we realised that it didn’t really matter if there were no sites – the scenery made the drive worthwhile as an end in itself.  We soon found ourselves winding over switchbacks and being dwarfed by towering mountains on all sides, with turkey buzzards circling overhead as though waiting for us to become stranded easy pickings for them!

Our nervousness and spur-of-the-moment decision making paid off in the end, as we rolled into the Cottonwood campground to find a beautiful shady site available…  It was quite a relief to know we had a place to stay, but was also a nice validation of our no-planning approach to the trip (which as many of you will know is very far from our comfort zone!).  To cool off we headed down to the Rio Grande, and had a lovely swim in the cool waters, looking across to Mexico on the far side of the river.  Refreshed and very relaxed, we headed back to the campsite and chatted with other campers, watched the gentle Javelinas (massive guinea pig-like animals) graze around the tents, and listened to the woodpeckers (and myriad of other birds) go about their evening business.  We went to sleep with the amazing star-lit sky in our eyes, reflecting on how lovely it was to be back in the bush…

Swimming in the Rio Grande River, Big Bend National Park

Javelina, Big Bend National Park

Friday March 15th, Big Bend National Park

Waking up Friday morning Alick had been hit by a bit of a cold, so we took it a little easy and didn’t get going as early as planned.  Making it out of the campsite at around 10am we drove the 30-odd miles from Cottonwood campground up to the main Chisos Basin visitor centre, from where we planned to do the South Rim hike (around 20km).  After buying a map and checking out the suggested route with a ranger, we set off into the rapidly warming day…  As we joined the trail we were given some pause for thought as we passed big signs warning that both mountain lions and bears had been sighted in the area, and that hikers should take care…  Of course they also gave information on what to do if we found ourselves face to face with either animal – don’t run, don’t lie down, make yourself look large – these seemed OK; it was the “don’t look scared” advice that we were most worried we wouldn’t be able to follow!!  Needless to say we didn’t need to worry, as for the next six hours we found ourselves walking through beautiful mountainous terrain hardly meeting any other hikers, let alone bears or mountain lions…

Big Bend National Park

It was a stunning hike, once again reminding us of the incredible beauty of the US, and certainly stretching our expectation of what Texas would be like.  As we hiked up through the valley the flora around us changed with the altitude, and then changed again as we crossed over the ridgeline – making so clear the impact that the sun has on vegetation in such dry parts of the world.  The views from the top of the South Rim were simply breathtaking – looking down over the Rio Grande and across to Mexico was incredible. 

Big Bend National Park

After finishing the hike we once again made the beautiful drive down to the river, and had a lovely refreshing dip before going back to the campground, having an early dinner and heading to bed….

Saturday March 16th, Big Bend to El Paso

We set off from our campsite mid-morning and with minimal fuel in the tank decided to take a ‘shortcut’ along an unpaved road to get to the exit on the north-western edge of Big Bend, which would take us to a town called Terlingua – famous for having a sister ghost town a few miles down the road.  Again going off the beaten track was highly rewarding, with us enjoying a beautiful drive but also an interesting stop at a long, low house that an old man and his family of 14 children had lived in in the desert until he was 106.  It was incredible what respite from the heat of the day we found on stepping into the low, wattle and daub structure – the effectiveness of good design before air-conditioning!



We made it to the gas station in Terlingua, and then set off to explore the ‘ghost town’…which didn’t prove to be so ghostly, but had a great little coffee shop that made delicious breakfast burritos, iced coffee and had free wi-fi!  It was a lovely opportunity for us to stop, recharge and quickly jump online and check out what our next stop would be…

Cemetery, Terlingua Ghost Town, Texas
One of the things that we had been trying to do on this trip was to go to a few places that we had never heard much about, but which sounded intriguing (or at least looked it on a map!).  For this reason we were both quite keen to check out the Texan bordertown of El Paso.  So after getting our fill of burritos and jumping online, we hit the road West, taking the scenic State Route 170 along the Mexico border to the town of Marfa.  If anyone reading this blog is planning a route West from Big Bend, and are thinking about taking the 170, we can firmly say DO IT!  The drive was one of the most memorable that we have done on this trip.  A times perched seemingly on the edge of a mountain, the road twists, turns, humps and dips its way along the Rio Grande, with so many amazing vistas and views that it is impossible to describe.  Arriving in Marfa is also a fascinating experience, the town holding a slightly strange identity as essentially a ranching town, but dotted with small art galleries after a group of New York artists decided to establish an artists community there during the 1970s.  Indeed, around 30 miles out of Marfa as we passed through the tiny town of Valentine (population 271), which with its dilapidated houses and tumbleweed-strewn streets certainly looked to have had better days, we were surprised to see what appeared to be the Marfa outlet of Prada just on the outskirts of the town!  It turns out that some artists from Marfa had built the faux-store (it contains pieces from a mid-2000s collection of Prada) as a comment on consumerism; the ‘store’ will never open, and serves as a luxurious juxtaposition to the harsh country and hard lives lived by those ranching in the fields around Valentine.



After an uneventful drive north we eventually met Interstate 10, which was to be our main route west almost all the way to Los Angeles from that point on.  Eventually rolling into El Paso at around sunset, we made our way to the #1 Urbanspoon recommended eatery, Crave on Cincinnatti St.  Indeed it was very good and after a michelada and some ceviche, we left tightly clutching a recommendation from the bartender of another good place in town and headed off into town… Unfortunately that was when we discovered that El Paso essentially only seems to have one decent restaurant, and we had already found it…  We rolled up to the recommendation to find it was a cavernous Mexican chain restaurant, with no atmosphere and even less attraction to us.  We promptly moved on and found a small shack in a car park where we got some decent tacos, before heading back to the Cincinatti St area, finding a place to park the car, and heading into a little bar for a margarita…  Before long we headed back to the car (which we had surreptitiously parked on a residential street) and bedded down for another night of hoping not to be woken by local police wondering what we were doing sleeping in our car….

Sunday March 17th  - Wednesday March 20th El Paso to Tucson, Arizona

Waking early in the morning in the streets of El Paso, we decided to move the car straight away to avoid residents noticing our car and headed to McDonalds to spend the morning on some long overdue online catch-ups before grabbing some lunch at a much-talked about local café (L&J’s) and jumping on the road towards Arizona.  As we again found ourselves in dire need of a shower, we decided it was more than time to stay in a real bed that evening so called ahead to make a booking at the Road Runner Hostel in Tucson. 

Soon after leaving El Paso (and passing through yet another US Border Protection checkpoint) we found ourselves driving through scrubby tundra and desert.  The wind was picking up significantly, blowing Jemima around quite a lot – making overtakes of trucks quite a challenge!  Around 50 miles out of El Paso a sign by the side of the road with flashing yellow lights warned us to tune in to the radio for updates on road hazards and dust storms…  It was a worthy warning.  The further west we drove, the wind became stronger and stronger, picking up lots of dust with it.  We soon noticed cars all around us with their lights on, trucks flashing their hazard warning lights, and the speed slowing significantly.  Warning signs on the side of the road advised drivers to exercise caution, and the voice on the radio continued to warn us that visibility may drop to ‘zero’; and to under no circumstances stop in the driving lanes…  We soldiered on, driving as gently as possible (many of the trucks didn’t seem so slow down, making it quite scary as they kept overtaking us!) and after a few hours emerged out of the desert, into clear air and mountains to the north…  Needless to say we breathed a big sigh of relief and kept on driving into Arizona…

Arriving in Tucson after the dusty drive was a welcome relief and we found the city to be absolutely beautiful.  The hostel staff at the Road Runner were really friendly and we quickly settled in, showered and wandered up the road to a pizza (and craft beer) restaurant for dinner.  After a good night sleep we woke early and stretched out our post hiking pains at a local yoga class, before spending the arvo wandering around the Sonora Desert Museum (really more of a zoo) amongst the incredible backdrop of the Saguaro cacti on the desert landscape.  A particular highlight of the desert museum was a raptor free-flight session where we were able to see a Barn Owl and a Peregrine Falcon show their agile hunting styles, followed by a group of Harris Hawks which had learned to hunt as a pack – typical of Harris Hawks in this area, but unlike almost all other raptors around the world.  Other highlights of the museum were the rattle snakes, coyotes, humming birds and the otter!


Mountain Lion, Sonora Desert Museum

Barn Owl, Sonora Desert Museum

Lizard, Sonora Desert Museum
Desert Landscape surrounding Tucson
Heading out for dinner that evening, we found the Tucson streets to be slightly sleepy on a Monday evening – though we were able to find some delicious mussels and cocktails alongside lots of recommendations of some new restaurants that have opened up in the city – that we discovered are open every night except Monday!

After checking out of the Road Runner hostel on the Tuesday morning and hitting the road with full intentions of heading towards California, we got somewhat distracted by a local brewery – Thunder Canyon – and, after Alick got talking to the manager, we soon had an appointment to meet with the head brewer at their main brewery just of town.  Kyle, the head brewer, was incredibly generous with his time and in addition to showing us around the brewery, shared his background and story on how he came to be in the industry.  Next thing we knew it was 5pm and, realising we hadn’t been remotely successful in our efforts to leave Tucson that day, headed back to the Road Runner hostel to see if we could re-check in! (All private rooms were booked but we managed to get a couple of dorm room beds).  The staff at the hostel thought we were absolutely crazy but were most amused. 

That night we treated ourselves to an amazing dinner at ‘Penca’ – one of the restaurants that had been recommended to us the previous evening – and were once again blown away by the awesome food and wine scene in Tucson.  So delicious!

Wednesday March 20th & Thursday March 21st – Joshua Tree National Park

We proved to be much more successful in our attempt to leave Tucson on the Thursday morning – making an early exit from the Road Runner hostel (leaving as the staff were calling out ‘see you again this afternoon!’ after us), crossing the California state border and working our way to Joshua Tree National Park… 

Our drive to Joshua Tree national park was overall uneventful; taking a route that avoided the Phoenix traffic took us through some great countryside, before we found ourselves crossing the Colorado River, and the border into California…  Mountains soon began to appear on either side, as we whizzed along the interstate on the southern border of Joshua Tree National Park.  On arrival in Joshua Tree we were lucky to find a campsite at the Cottonwood Springs campsite, and decided to spend the afternoon hiking up to Mastodon Peak.  We inadvertently ended up taking a longer loop walk than we had originally planned – which turned out to be beautiful and well worth the extra mile or so!  While there are no Joshua Trees in that southern part of the park, the many cacti and other desert shrubs continued to impress us with their beauty (and their resilience against the harsh, dry conditions!).  Returning to the campsite that night Alick set up the BBQ and grilled a Bison steak that we had bought the day before in Tucson – a delicious way to end our first day in California…

Alick's delicious camp cooking - Bison steak, Joshua Tree National Park
Enjoying dinner, Joshua Tree National Park
The next morning we woke early and set off on the 11.6km hike down to the Lost Palms Oasis.  As we passed other hikers on the trail, we soon realised that we were in a National Park much nearer to a major city  than other National Parks we’d visiting on the trip– and a major Californian city at that!  While we were kitted out in our usual hiking gear (complete with poles, hydration packs, boots and long pants) we met other ‘hikers’ in short shorts, singlets, bright running shoes and sporting an overall designer look!  Despite this we were once again lucky to have the trail pretty much to ourselves, with our only company the ubiquitous birds of prey, lizards and cacti….

Joshua Tree National Park

Following our morning hike we packed up the van and drove north, crossing everything that we would find another site in one of the campsites in the northern area of the park.  We had met a lovely family early in the morning (who had incidentally spent lots of time in Australia and actually named one of their daughters Sydney!), who had warned us that given it was Californian Spring Break, there were not many sites available – but also gave some great recommendations on which campsites to try first.  Driving north into the park we soon found ourselves surrounded by the famous Joshua Trees – technically overgrown yuccas, and now deeply reminiscent of Dr Seuss books!  We learned that the Joshua Trees had for many years been classified as a giant member of the Lily family, but had recently been reclassified into the Agave family, after the Lily family had been split into 40 different plant families due to its size.  The Joshua Trees were reputedly named by Mormon pioneers, who thought the arms of the trees were representative of the outstretched arms of the biblical figure of Joshua, guiding them on their journey westward.

Joshua Tree National Park

Joshua Tree National Park
Again we put our faith in our good fortune and made our way to the Ryan campground, first on our new friends’ list.  On arrival we realised that there were only 20-odd sites in the whole campground, and pretty much all were occupied…  We found one which had a tent pitched in it, but no booking chit indicating it was booked for that night.  Taking a bit of a punt, we went ahead and booked the site, thinking that it was likely that the owner of the tent may have left it up for the day to dry out and was returning to pack it up and leave later in the day…  Of course there was always the risk that this wasn’t the case, and that we had muscled in on someone else’s campsite, but we decided to cross that bridge when we came to it…

With our accommodation for the night sorted (albeit a little precariously!) we set off for an afternoon hike on the Lost Horse Mine trail.  Setting off in the peak heat of the day, it felt a times as though we were walking into a furnace – the sense of which was heightened further by the fact that we were soon surrounded by blackened stumps of Joshua Trees and scorched hillsides all around.  Walking through this harsh landscape, passing deserted mine sites and the remains of miners cottages, we found ourselves reflecting on how tough life must have been for the fortune-seekers who came to the Californian desert searching newfound wealth… 

As we drove back to Ryan campground, having been a little apprehensive in case we found ourselves in a confrontation over the site on our walk, we both started to feel positive that everything would work out fine.  We’d been so lucky to have been met with nothing but hospitality and smiles on our whole trip, it felt really unlikely that we would find ourselves in strife on our final night…  Indeed our gut feeling was right.  We returned to find the owner of the tent still there (it appeared there had been a mistake made by the rangers who had removed his chit from the booking pole), but also very open to sharing the site with us.  It was very typical of our whole trip that what could have been a slightly tense and potentially uncomfortable situation turned out to be an enriching and thoroughly enjoyable experience.  The owner of the tent was a man in his late 40s who, having been working at a bank for the past 15 years, had decided to take a ‘pre-retirement’ year off, and travel around the USA by road – being joined at various points by his sixteen-year-old son.  His aim was to visit every National Park in the country by the end of his year off, before returning to South Carolina and following his dream to become a paramedic.  We found our conversation with John, and hearing his stories about life and his adventures so far, truly inspiring and exciting.  It really cemented our conviction that as we move through life, we want to do everything we can to continue to travel, meet new people, and share new experiences.  If you want to read more about John’s adventures, he is writing his ‘Out Of Office 2013’ blog, which you can read here: 
http://www.2013ooo.blogspot.com.au/

Friday March 22rd –Sunday March 24th: Joshua Tree National Park – Aliso Viejo, California

On Friday morning, we were packing up our little van one last time, and were approached by yet another curious fellow-camper attracted by the bright colours and lurid decals…  After chatting with him for a few minutes it turned out that he was a musician, who had come to Joshua Tree for some inspiration (describing it as ‘one of the most beautiful places - in fact probably the most beautiful place in the world’!).  He has a band called The Co-Op, and gave us one of his CDs (called Winter Sun), which has been on high rotation ever since… 

After one last hike in Joshua Tree National Park on Friday morning to see the stunning views from the top of Ryan Mountain, we made our way towards the coast, via a quick stop off in the Desert Hot Springs to account for our lack of showers during the previous three days!  The Desert Hot Springs proved to be quite a bizarre experience as the springs were located inside a big hotel where we had to work our way around dozens of highly primped, leathery bodies who appeared to have taken up permanent poolside residency, in order to get ourselves immersed in the lovely warm pools.  It was late afternoon when we eventually arrived in Aliso Viejo  - a cute new suburb on the outskirts of Laguna Beach and home to Tess’ extended family Aly and Christine MacGregor and their adorable 2-year-old Abbie – who greated us with a warm smile and immediate demonstration of the functions of various objects in her toy box.  Abbie quickly grasped some concept of the extended family relationship (referring to Tess and ‘Uncle Jo-Jo’s sister’ and Alick as ‘that man’) and we commenced a delightful few days exploring Aliso Viejo and the surrounding areas with the MacGregor family – including delicious home-cooked tacos, sampling local craft brews,  experiencing the different cultures between Huntington, Newport, and Laguna beaches, receiving some much-needed clothes shopping advice and assistance from Christine, getting our first tastes of both buffalo wings and Peruvian cuisine and being introduced to the game of Mexican dominoes (a highly competitive contest with the MacGregor household).

Alick and Abbie
Our arrival in Aliso Viejo also meant it was time to return our trusty campervan Jemima to the Jucy rental office – a slightly sad farewell after all the fun and adventures she’d led us on across the South West of the country over the previous month!

Huntington Beach, Los Angeles
The beautiful MacGregor family, Aliso Viejo
Before we really had a moment to process what was happening we were in LA airport boarding our plane to Australia and a strange sensation came over both of us that we had blinked when boarding a Doha-bound plane in Melbourne last Melbourne and all the moments since had flown by in an instant.  We seriously couldn’t believe our time had gone so fast (though thankfully had arranged to fly straight to Byron Bay to give ourselves ten days in the sun, surf and Blues and Roots festival to adjust to the shock that our trip was offer and start to process and reflect on some of the amazing adventures we’d had).



Monday, 1 April 2013

USA Road Trip - The Second Week: Taos, New Mexico to Lafayette, Louisiana


The second week of our unplanned USA road trip was one filled with much celebration – starting off with spoiling ourselves on our first wedding anniversary in Santa Fe and ending with us being invited along to a surprise birthday party in Lafayette, Louisiana and meeting lots of new friends along the way!  The week also saw us enjoy some quality time with extended family in Texas and test our road trip limits during our first overnight stop in a roadside truck stop.   On reflection (given that we’re slightly behind with our blog posts and are actually writing this from Byron Bay!), this second week was the point where we realised that we really could achieve what we set out to do on this road trip – have a brilliant time travelling across the country without advance planning and making the most of all opportunities and challenges that came our way!

Sunday March 3: Taos – Santa Fe, New Mexico

We awoke in Taos on the morning of our first wedding anniversary and headed straight back to the Rio Grande bridge to enjoy breakfast and a walk while overlooking the last moments of sunrise over the canyon.  It was a lovely moment to reflect on the achievements and adventures of our first year of marriage, and share our excitement for the years yet to come.



The sun rises on our first anniversary overlooking the Rio Grande Bridge, Taos NM
We spent the morning driving the ‘Enchanted Circle’ scenic loop to the north of Taos, continuing to be blown away be the exquisite scenery at each turn – from abandoned mining shacks to huge snowy alpine desert tundra, to towering rock formations...

Farmhouses in the shadows of the mountains, Enchanted Circle, Taos NM
Jemima and towering rock formations on the Enchanted Circle, Taos NM
Santuario de Chimayo, High Road to Taos, NM
In the early afternoon we made our way down the ‘High Road’ from Taos to Santa Fe, with a stop at the Santuario de Chimayo, where the earth is reputed to have spiritual healing powers).  Alick had booked us into an adorable bed and breakfast, where we had an opportunity to have long hot showers and get properly dressed up (each of us wearing our one ‘good outfit’) for the first time since starting the road trip.  Alick had sneakily made both a pre-dinner drinks and dinner reservation in town – the first being at a bar called La Casa Sena which had a grand piano in the corner with a range of solo singers (who also happened to be the wait staff) taking it in turns to sing Broadway numbers.  Just perfect!  Dinner was at La Boca – a cosy Tapas bar which was featuring a range of special dishes as part of Santa Fe’s restaurant week, where the staff surprised us with glasses of sparkling for the occasion.  While all the food was delicious, the somewhat surprising highlight was a flat iron steak with salted caramel sauce… Delicious!  (Little did we know that salted caramel was also to feature as a highlight later in our trip – more on that in our week three post though!)  All in all, the day was such a lovely celebration of an amazing first year of marriage...

Monday March 4: Santa Fe – Tucumcari, New Mexico

Following a delicious blueberry waffle, bacon and maple syrup breakfast feast at our bed and breakfast, we set off for a day exploring Santa Fe.  Following on from our fun night out the previous evening, Santa Fe pulled out all stops for us and it was incredibly easy to fall in love with the beautiful, laid back atmosphere of the city and its residents as we wanted between market stalls, street side food trucks, shops, restaurants and breweries. As late afternoon rolled around we reluctantly hit the road again, with a view to edging a hundred miles or so east to reduce our travel time to Dallas the following day, in order to arrive at Alick’s cousin Ally’s place at a reasonable hour the next day.  Driving fatigue started to kick in as we approached a town called Tucumcari just west of the New Mexico/Texas state line, where we stumbled upon a very lively ‘Flying J’ truck-stop (a unique cultural experience in itself!) where we pulled into the parking lot, set up the mattress and tucked in for what we thought would be a very noisy and disruptive night’s sleep, but actually resulted in us both sleeping incredibly soundly!  We before our departure we saw some weird and wonderful things pulling through the truck-stop – including a car towing an aeroplane on a trailer!!

Our first USA truck stop experience - Tucumcari, New Mexico
Some of our company for our overnight stop in the Flying J....
Tuesday March 5 – March 6: Flower Mound, Texas

After an early departure from the Flying J truck stop, a fairly uneventful drive into Texas and a very random lunch stop in a town called Henrietta, Texas (where the locals were so surprised to see tourists from Australia they loaded us up with souvenir calendars from the local burger joint and gave us a free serve of fries with our burgers!), we made our way to Ally and Luke’s place in Flower Mound (just outside of Dallas). 

Fun times with the Stokes Family! 

Finley and Rafe
It was great fun to catch up with them all and Ally and Luke’s boys Finley and Rafe had grown so much in the nearly 4 years since we last saw them. The two days and evening we spent with the Stokes family was a really special opportunity to catch up on their news, see their life in Texas and enjoy spending time with them and with their beautiful yellow lab Bill in their home. Our time with the Stokes’ was spent being introduced to geo-caching, visiting a delicious Texan lunch spot, organising garden beds in their community garden, making s’mores on a backyard campfire, satiating our cravings for delicious home cooking, sampling local craft brews and generally hanging out.  Tuesday evening was climbing night for Ally, Finley and Rafe so we also joined them at the local climbing gym (where the three of them put us to shame with their climbing skills – and our complete lack thereof!).  A lovely couple of days with family whom due to the tyranny of distance we don’t see often enough…

Our first geo-caching experience, Flower Mound, Texas
Thursday March 7, 2013.  Flower Mound TX to St Francisville, LA

Leaving Ally and Luke’s mid-morning we made our way (not altogether without incident) through the labyrinthine freeways of the Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex, and onto the highways south-east toward Louisiana…

Leaving the Dallas area it was striking how quickly the scenery changed from scrubby desert to greener, wooded countryside as we approached the TX-LA border.  We saw fewer and fewer buzzards circling, and instead started to notice herons, smaller marsh harriers and kites wheeling overhead.  A couple of hundred k’s after crossing into Louisiana, and turning south off the Interstate freeway at Alexandria, we decided to follow the smaller roads for the remaining few hundred k’s through Louisiana towns such as Marksville and Effie, en route to St Francisville.  As the sun sunk in the sky and the shadows grew longer, we really started to get the feeling that we were in the south.  Suddenly we found the road on an elevated causeway, with low swampland on either side, and ramshackle cottages dotted between weatherboard mansions ringed with wide verandahs.  Even the air changed, becoming denser and warmer, and taking on a slightly musty-muddy smell…  Such a great change from the cold, crisp dry air of northern Arizona where we were only a week ago!

 It was fascinating to drive through the farmland; going past the many disused and derelict houses, overgrown farmyards and abandoned cars we found ourselves reflecting on the history of this particular part of the south.  Characterised by loss, resistance and displacement, we traced the human history of the area through the colonisation of the Native Indian people, to the Acadian diaspora re-located from Canada (from whom the Cajun identity arose), to the arrival of slaves – and their liberation following the Civil War – and great changes in fortune experienced by the plantation owners in the years that followed.  The complexity and depth of historical experience that has shaped this region of the USA is so visceral, and continues to influence the identity of the people who live here, to this very day…  (Unfortunately we were both a little too weary to get many photos of this - but the images are certainly in our heads!)

We experienced this first-hand on our arrival in St Francisville, when we went to the Magnolia Café for some much-needed sustenance after the long drive.  Perching up at the bar eating grilled pork chops and steak, we had the most fascinating conversations with a whole raft of locals, all of whom were regulars at the bar.  From workers at the local nuclear power plant for whom the battles of the Civil War seem to still hold much relevance, a retired and ailing tow-truck driver and his real-estate magazine owner friend, to a lobbyist for American citizens over the age of 50 whose daughter-in-law was an senior advisor for the democrats during Hurricane Katrina, we learned so much about the experience of living in Louisiana, and certainly have got a great feel for the timbre of the region. Feeling very full (and very lucky to have had such amazing conversations), we set up camp in the car park of the café, and crossed our fingers that the local sheriff wouldn’t disturb us during the night….

Friday March 8, 2013. St Francisville, LA to New Orleans, LA

Well the good news is that we didn’t have a visit from the Sheriff during the night in St Francisville!  We’d been thinking about what to do with our day around St Francisville and had noticed the day before that there was a wildlife reserve just out of town called Cat Island, where we drove out to have breakfast.  It was our first taste of the famous Louisiana swamps, and gave us a great opportunity to develop an appreciation for their unique charm and beauty (as well as their unique smell!!).  We saw many beautiful birds (egrets, cardinals, kites) as we drove out, and while we ate breakfast, but didn’t see any Louisiana Black Bears (not sure if we were sad or relieved about that!!).  We did find it interesting that we were in a nature conservancy area that allowed hunting (with permits) and were pleased that during our time there we didn’t hear any rifle shots close to hand!

Historic House on Royal Street, St Francisville LA
We spent the rest of the day driving around the many historic sites and plantations from the Indigo, Cane and Cotton boom-times in the late 1700s and early 1800s.  It was a fascinating experience, highlighting again the way in which histories can be told and retold in many different ways when recounted through different lenses.  Having visited a couple of plantations and looked through the St Francisville Museum, we were feeling a little like we were only getting one side of the story; that of the plantation owners, and their descendents.  We’d been brought a little into the world of the slaves by the (very good) guide at the Myrtles plantation, as he told the horrific story of slave girl Chloe, who it is believed still haunts the plantation to this day, but still felt that we wanted to hear a little more from the slaves perspective…

After walking around the stunning grounds of the Myrtles Plantation, we drove down to Donaldsonville, where we found the River Road African American Museum. We were lucky enough to meet the founder of the museum, Kathe, and had an absolutely fascinating tour from her around the various exhibits.  We were both really moved by the experience, which told the stories of the millions of men, women and children who were forcibly removed from West Africa and transported to Louisiana (and surrounding states) from the early 1600s through the mid 1800s (and the American Civil War).  The museum is very well curated and captures in a very powerful way the experience of slaves being ‘owned’ and traded amongst plantation masters.  It was a fascinating visit, and we both felt that we had gained a much more holistic sense of the history of loss, belonging, trauma and pride that characterises the area.

House in Donaldsonville, LA
From Donaldsonville we drove on down the road toward New Orleans.  Again we took the scenic route, which while taking longer also enabled us to avoid much of the Friday afternoon NOLA traffic!  Arriving at the accommodation we had booked through AirBnB we were greeted by our friendly host Will, who proceeded to give us fantastic tips on where to go to eat, drink, listen to music, and everything in between!  We headed out to the French Quarter, starting on Frenchmen street with some Bluegrass at the Spotted Cat Café, before moving on to Apple Barrel for a one-man blues guitar show…  Awesome!  Our third bar looked like a bit of a seedy nightclub (neon lights and the whole works) but we were lured in by the sounds of a big horn band, who proved to be very entertaining, and we spent the next hour jiving to their big sound and entertaining lyrics…  We then decided it was time to sample a Sazeraq, the famous NOLA cocktail, and headed to Bar Tonique on the northern fringe of the French Quarter.  Having accidentally found ourselves on the famous Bourbon St en route, we were relieved to find Bar Tonique to be a nice haven from the madness a few blocks south! 

We eventually made it back to our place (a classic New Orleans ‘half-shotgun’ house) in St Roch at around 3am, having had a couple of drinks on Bourbon St and feasted on food-truck fare on the way home, and fell into bed, very satisfied that we had given the NOLA nightlife a good go!

Saturday March 9, NOLA to Lafeyette, LA & Sunday March 10, Lafeyette

After a somewhat slow moving morning after our late night, we wandered down to the highly recommended restaurant ‘Elizabeth’s’ for a recovery breakfast (where Tess enjoyed one of the best meals of the entire USA leg – fried green tomatoes – and Alick worked his way through a classic hearty NOLA breakfast of smothered steak and grits).  From there we headed down to the ninth ward where Andy and Will – our hosts from the previous evening – had suggested we go to make sure we had an understanding of a different side of New Orleans – the ongoing recovery from Hurricane Katrina (Andy and Will had both come to NOLA as volunteers post-Katrina and have lived there ever since).  Visiting the ninth ward was one of the most confronting aspects of this leg of our trip – with entire streets completely decimated and completely untouched in the 8 years that have passed since the devastation.  In some cases, handwritten signs had been posted to indicate street names and house numbers in the absence of anything remaining on these streets.  At one end of the ward, there were a series of new developments built, as part of Brad Pitt’s ‘Make it Right’ project.  Given the strong emphasis that was prominent in the French Quarter about NOLA’s recovery from Katrina, the complete contrast of the ninth ward had a very strong impact on us both. 

House in ninth ward, NOLA

House plot, ninth ward, NOLA

Abandoned house, ninth ward, NOLA

House plot, ninth ward, NOLA

Makeshift street signs with Make it Right project houses in background, ninth ward, NOLA
After seeing the ninth ward, we found ourselves somewhat conflicted about heading back into the French Quarter and, remembering the recommendation we’d received from Thomas, the fellow traveller we met in Albuquerque, decided to make our way to Lafayette instead to check out music at the Blue Moon Saloon.  The drive across to Lafayette was another experience to remember.  On leaving the immediate environs of New Orleans, we soon found ourselves driving across a dual carriageway built on a causeway suspended over swampland below.  This in itself wasn’t particularly striking, as we had experienced a number of bridges similar to this on our way into NOLA; what was amazing was the length of this causeway.  We must have been driving over the swamp for 40 or 50 miles, pretty much dead straight.  We certainly started to understand why the swampland of Louisiana is such a pervasive theme throughout the local music, art, food and other culture…

Swampland home, LA
We made it to Lafayette by 4pm but arrived at the Blue Moon Saloon to a sign stating the venue was closed for a private function – so disappointing!  However, the sign didn’t state whether the private function was just for the day or extended into the evening so we decided to temporarily ignore the sign and walk on in…  We started chatting with two women who were sitting on the verandah, who turned out to be sisters – Bubbles and Judy – and explained they had the venue booked for the entire evening as a birthday party for Bubbles’ daughter Dawn and her partner Brandon.  After a great conversation with Bubbles and Judy about where we were from and our travels, they insisted that we mustn’t leave, and had to come along to the party!!!  We couldn’t quite believe their generosity, and agreed to find somewhere to go and change and come back for the party later on.

No sooner had we found a park around the corner outside a deli (where we planned to spend the night in the back of Jemima) were we approached by a young family asking about our travels in Louisiana (with the brightness of our car again being a great conversation starter).  On hearing we had just arrived in town, they recommended we followed them into town to an event called ‘Art Walk’, which was a monthly event that involved the galleries across town opening late into the night, with free admission to view local art works and listen to local musical talent.  We took up the suggestion and walked into town, checking out some great contemporary art – even including a short preview of a new musical called ‘In His Grace’.  With free champagne flowing, we spent a couple of hours at ArtWalk getting a sense of the musical and artistic vibe of the city and mingling with the locals before making our way back to the party at Blue Moon Saloon.   

From that point on, the remainder of the evening was a blur of people filled with pure warmth, friendliness and genuine hospitality and who really know how to party!!!!  We were so touched by how everyone welcomed us with open arms and were so happy for us to completely gate crash the party.

The moment we walked in we had full bowls of gumbo placed into our hands (so delicious!) and were introduced to the entire extended family.  There were two bands playing during the party – ‘The Mike Dean Band’ from Lafayette and ‘T-Bird and the Breaks’ from Austin, Texas – both of whom were just brilliant and really got the whole party dancing.  After making quick friends with two women named Melissa and Blyss – whose husbands, Buck and Mike, were playing in the Mike Dean Band – Melissa invited us to come and stay at their place in Cow Island the following evening – a generous offer we happily accepted.


Tess with Melissa and Blyss
The women who insisted we gate-crash the party - Bubbles (Kathryn) and Judy
At one point during the party, we were asked where we were staying that night and, on mentioning that we had a mattress in our car, there was a flurry of action to arrange us alternate accommodation.  In the end we had two offers made – one from Dawn (the host who had arranged the surprise party for her partner Brandon and booked out the entire house) found us a bed in the Blue Moon Saloon, while Judy (who initially invited us to the party) insisted that her daughter Chanda and husband Mike had plenty of room in their guest house… On their invitation (and on the recommendation of their daughter Kayla who told us with much excitement that the house was ‘amazing’) we followed our gut instinct that they were good people, took them up on their offer. 

There is little that we can put in writing to describe how amazing Chanda and Mike’s place was – from the guest house that is as nice than any hotel room we’ve ever stayed in, the amazing pool (complete with swim-in bar), the full size home gym or electric fireplace within the walk-in robes – it was absolutely as Kayla said – amazing!  Above all, however, Chanda, Mike and Kayla were such kind, genuine people and we ended up sitting around the pool with them, drinking whiskey and wine and talking about life until we suddenly realised it was 5am and we should probably get some sleep!

Room with a view at Mike and Chanda's
After a slightly slow start the next morning, Mike and Chanda took us out to Don’s Seafood Shack – a restaurant owned and managed by Chanda's first cousins the Landry family (Dawn, whose party we had crashed the night before is the manager and part-owner with her brother) - to sample some more of Louisiana’s incredible food – starting off with BBQ oysters before a massive crawfish, shrimp and crab feast.  We don’t think we’ve ever seen so much food in our life and when we got to the point where we couldn’t fit in another bite, Kayla (who was working in the restaurant that morning) set about filling up our car fridge to get us through the next few days on the road.  

At Don's Seafood Shack with Kayla, Chanda and Mike
BBQ Oysters for breakfast - delicious! 
After farewelling Mike, Chanda and Kayla with hopes to someday see them again either in Lafayette or Australia, we set off to have a look at Avery Island – where we got our first glimpse of some small alligators and the site of the Tabasco Sauce factory (which was unfortunately closed by the time we arrived).  After a relaxing arvo in the Avery Island gardens, we then worked our way across to Cow Island to take up Melissa and Buck’s kind offer of having us to stay the night their place.

Alligator, Avery Island LA
Blyss and Mike had also come over for the evening, as had another couple named Kelly and Troy – so with all of us it was quite a gathering.  Melissa and Buck’s house sits alongside Buck’s grandparents crawfish ponds and Melissa had cooked up a delicious crawfish ettouffé for us – yum! Melissa and Buck’s two young sons Cody and Gabe were a delight to be around and so polite (it was quite an adjustment for us to get used to being called ‘sir’ and ‘ma’am’!) and Cody, being a massive Steve Irwin fan, was so well informed about Australia and shared many tidbits with us about Australian wildlife that we had no idea about!  We had a lovely restful sleep in the Verret household that evening (with Cody generously giving us his room for the night) and before we knew it, it was time for more farewells the next morning as we set off in the direction of Austin, Texas.

Hanging out with the Verret's - Buck, Cody and Gabe (shame we didn't get Melissa in the picture too!)
Out of all of our travels in the USA, Lafayette was definitely the hardest place to leave – farewelling our new friends who had so generously opened up their homes and hearts to a couple of random Australians.  Above everything else, we left Lafayette knowing that everything said about ‘Southern hospitality’ is completely true.  If we ever return to the USA, Lafayette will certainly be at the top of our ‘must return to’ list and we truly hope that some of the new friends we met there make it to Melbourne some day so we can return their hospitality.